I first encountered neckties in 1963. Didn’t like those “kiddy” types at all – one which came with an elastic band, and another with a Y-shaped plastic catch (this one made my skin sore).
I wanted to have those which adults wore.
But getting the knot “right” with the correct lengths to be left dangling was quite tricky. In those days, the prevailing style seemed to resemble a scalene triangle, which I called the “ketupat”. I hated that shape because it was asymmetrical.
I spent many hours perfecting the twists and turns to get that ultimate symmetrical “samosa” knot, along the way inadvertently producing some “bak chang”, and “kuih abok abok” as well. Quite stressful, just to put a tight noose around our necks !
Do you have a knotty story to tell ?